Love turns the world upside down. It makes you smile and you tend to think of him far too much and far too often. That is the beauty of being in love. Falling in love is like falling asleep. In both these cases, one starts to fall slowly, gradually and then all of a sudden the process is complete without you yourself realizing the effects. However falling for a man is never indicative of the fact that your man has fallen for you as well. That takes time. At least the expression of love is always time taking.
The worst case scenario in such a situation can be that you have fallen head over heels for your dream man and his emotions do not appear as strongly felt as yours. How to make him want you? Well, the answer to this question is never simple. Equally important is the fact that the method can never be exactly the same for any two guys. The needs, wants, desires and expectations of different men vary from one man to another. The cleverest thing that you can do in such a situation is also the toughest.
Stay slightly aloof without being too distant. Remember that the expression of your feelings or the extent and strength of your feelings at such an early stage is never a good idea. Stay optimistic and cheerful. Flirt with the guy with as much cool confidence as you can muster up. Try and be his buddy. Let him get to know you and understand you for what you are worth. Never forget that men like a mystery. If you are to let him know everything about you all at once, then it is highly probable that he will lose interest.
So keep him guessing. Let him be alert to any and all information about you that you care to share with him. Remember that the speed at which you reveal yourself is very important. If you have to try and get it just about right. If you are too slow then he might consider that you are not interested in him and that might lead to things between the two of you losing their spark. If you are too quick in this revelation then the results might be even more negative for your desires.
After you have been dating for a substantial period of time such as 6-8 months then it is highly probable that any dependable man would know and appreciate you. However, it is the initial period in relationships when things are rosy and exciting that the foundation for the future is laid. Too much clinginess on the part of women often leads to the death of relationships in their buds. So it is essential that you play your cards right to surpass the slightly slow phase in a relationship that occurs after the extreme excitement of the initial phase in any relationship.
So make sure that you find the right man and then never let him go. Make sure that he actually gets to know your true worth.